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Birth control. Can you cum inside?

Good day, I started taking birth control pills that my gynecologist prescribed after a medical abortion. He said I could use them for contraception going forward... I have a question: while taking birth control, can my boyfriend cum inside?
Дарина
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Гость
#1
Yes, but probably to be on the safe side—not before the second or third month of taking it. I might be wrong; I'm not a doctor, but that's what I would do. I had a long history of taking oral contraceptives before, and pregnancy didn't occur.
Дарина
#2
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Yes, but probably to be on the safe side—not before the second or third month of taking it. I might be wrong; I'm not a doctor, but that's what I would do. I had a long history of taking oral contraceptives before, and pregnancy didn't occur.
Which ones did you take?
Алекс
#3
Possible, but after a month of taking the pills.
Гость
#4
Don't you want to read the instructions? 😉
Дарина
#5
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Don't you want to read the instructions? 😉
You read them. If I'm asking a question, probably something isn't clear, right?))) The instructions say to start taking from day 1 of your period and you can stop using protection after two weeks, but since I was prescribed it after an abortion, it wasn't the first day of my period🤷🏼♀️ And anyway, my question isn't: 'How soon can I stop using protection?' but 'Can he finish inside?' Have you ever seen an answer to this specific question in any instructions?)))
Гость
#6
Author, did you even think logically before asking this question? What do you think is the function of birth control pills?
If you don't ejaculate inside, then why take the pills at all? Have you not thought about that?
Дарина
#8
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Author, did you even think logically before asking this question? What do you think is the function of birth control pills?
If you don't ejaculate inside, then why take the pills at all? Have you not thought about that?
If I hadn't thought about it, I would just use some other form of protection. Since I asked the question - it means I've thought about this topic, right?
That's why I'm asking
I'm taking them for the first time
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#9
Дарина
If I hadn't thought about it, I would just use some other form of protection. Since I asked the question - it means I've thought about this topic, right?
That's why I'm asking
I'm taking them for the first time
You still haven't answered the question. Why take the pills if the man doesn't finish inside?
Дарина
#10
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We'll deal with the head ourselves as we go along already)
Дарина
#11
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You still haven't answered the question. Why take the pills if the man doesn't finish inside?
I'm asking the question to get an answer. I started taking them for the first time, I'm asking to make absolutely sure... maybe they're for some additional protection just in case... I don't know, that's why I'm asking
Гость
#12
What a topic.
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#14
Yes, it's possible. My boyfriend and I have practiced this about three times already, and no problems have occurred.
I've been taking the pills for several years.
Марго
#15
Of course, author. However, since you didn't start taking the pills from the first day of your cycle, wait for about 3 months of taking them to ensure ovulation has stopped and the endometrium has thinned. This will also allow your withdrawal bleeding days to become established.
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#16
Ha. Just remembered a story from my life. I was dating this guy, started taking birth control pills, and he was afraid to finish inside me. Then when we broke up, he said: "Admit it, you never took any pills, you lied to get pregnant." Like, seriously! I was so pissed off then, of course you're the perfect candidate to have a child with! A broke deadbeat who pays child support, 20 years older than me. The audacity of men! And why did I even get involved with him back then, what an idiot!!!
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#17
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Ha. Just remembered a story from my life. I was dating this guy, started taking birth control pills, and he was afraid to finish inside me. Then when we broke up, he said: "Admit it, you never took any pills, you lied to get pregnant." Like, seriously! I was so pissed off then, of course you're the perfect candidate to have a child with! A broke deadbeat who pays child support, 20 years older than me. The audacity of men! And why did I even get involved with him back then, what an idiot!!!
At least he has self-esteem, and he's handsome too - with those qualities he managed to get a young woman. But you apparently have no self-respect, since you'd sleep with a broke-ass deadbeat dad who's 20 years older. You're worse than a prostitute - at least she takes money. lol
Дарина
#18
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I don't think the reason for my abortion is any of your business))
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#19
Дарина
I don't think the reason for my abortion is any of your business))
Did I even ask for the reasons?
You're very uneducated about birth control.
I feel sorry for such naive people who run to get abortions.
Дарина
#20
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Did I even ask for the reasons?
You're very uneducated about birth control.
I feel sorry for such naive people who run to get abortions.
"So that's why the abortion?" isn't that about reasons? If you feel sorry for those who are uneducated about pregnancy protection, you could help and answer the question))
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#21
Дарина
"So that's why the abortion?" isn't that about reasons? If you feel sorry for those who are uneducated about pregnancy protection, you could help and answer the question))
I answered you. That's one.
Two. For that there's mom.
For that there's a doctor.
For that there's the instructions.
For that there's a brain and logic.
Дарина
#22
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I answered you. That's one.
Two. For that there's mom.
For that there's a doctor.
For that there's the instructions.
For that there's a brain and logic.
Could you please specify in which of your replies you answered? There are only your questions there.. I'll definitely ask my gynecologist when I have my appointment in a week, but I got curious now))) If you weren't planning to answer, you could've just scrolled past)) or did you come here just to be snarky?)))
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#23
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At least he has self-esteem, and he's handsome too - with those qualities he managed to get a young woman. But you apparently have no self-respect, since you'd sleep with a broke-ass deadbeat dad who's 20 years older. You're worse than a prostitute - at least she takes money. lol
Yes, I'm shocked myself!!! What a fool I was!
Гость
#24
My questions contain advice within them. Are you incapable of understanding that?
Do you need everything spoon-fed to you? Or are you just 15 years old?
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#25
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My questions contain advice within them. Are you incapable of understanding that?
Do you need everything spoon-fed to you? Or are you just 15 years old?
Oh come on, what are you talking about?! The person realized their mistakes, doesn't want repeats, it's good they're asking, and you're here acting smart, trying to boost your ego? Author, since the situation is unusual, use condoms for now, and ask a doctor in a week.
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#26
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Oh come on, what are you talking about?! The person realized their mistakes, doesn't want repeats, it's good they're asking, and you're here acting smart, trying to boost your ego? Author, since the situation is unusual, use condoms for now, and ask a doctor in a week.
I wasn't even thinking about self-assertion. Or are you incapable of handling this kind of conversation and communication style?
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#27
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Yes, I'm shocked myself!!! What a fool I was!
Hmm... but at least that's honest. Admitting your mistakes is the path to a better future, too bad not all girls get these simple truths.
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#28
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Hmm... but at least that's honest. Admitting your mistakes is the path to a better future, too bad not all girls get these simple truths.
Yeah, I was young, it's been 10 years already, and now reading topics here, so many similar fooools!
Гость
#29
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Yeah, I was young, it's been 10 years already, and now reading topics here, so many similar fooools!
And the thing is, you tell them how not to make mistakes, but they don't give a damn, they'll even curse you out with seven-meter-long swear words. And I hope you've built your happiness in life (no sarcasm)
Гость
#30
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And the thing is, you tell them how not to make mistakes, but they don't give a damn, they'll even curse you out with seven-meter-long swear words. And I hope you've built your happiness in life (no sarcasm)
Yes, I did))) thank you
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#31
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Ha. Just remembered a story from my life. I was dating this guy, started taking birth control pills, and he was afraid to finish inside me. Then when we broke up, he said: "Admit it, you never took any pills, you lied to get pregnant." Like, seriously! I was so pissed off then, of course you're the perfect candidate to have a child with! A broke deadbeat who pays child support, 20 years older than me. The audacity of men! And why did I even get involved with him back then, what an idiot!!!
If I were in your boyfriend's position, I'd be scared to cum inside you too. Well, honestly, I have p-a. It's like a reflex by now. Maybe that could cause problems? Even when they use condoms.
Гость
#32
Read a bit about this, OK – it's not a universal remedy. There's no point in taking a course after miscarriages or abortions.
Гость
#33
Марго
Of course, author. However, since you didn't start taking the pills from the first day of your cycle, wait for about 3 months of taking them to ensure ovulation has stopped and the endometrium has thinned. This will also allow your withdrawal bleeding days to become established.
Ovulation stops at first, but as research has shown, over time (a year later or earlier, much earlier) the body "learns" to bypass the action of external hormones, so breakthrough ovulation (break-through ovulation) is sometimes possible. And the thinning of the endometrium - that's just (((((, it's precisely because of this that the embryo (yes, embryo, not egg cell) can't implant in the endometrium and dies. This is no longer a contraceptive effect, it's a micro-abortion (even though the woman has no idea about it)
Гость
#34
Джонииии
If I were in your boyfriend's position, I'd be scared to cum inside you too. Well, honestly, I have p-a. It's like a reflex by now. Maybe that could cause problems? Even when they use condoms.
Of course! PA is harmful.
Дарина
#35
Гость
Read a bit about this, OK – it's not a universal remedy. There's no point in taking a course after miscarriages or abortions.
But I didn't prescribe them to myself, the gynecologist prescribed them
And ALL my acquaintances were prescribed them by gynecologists after an abortion or miscarriage. I read about it online, I didn't see a single article that says you shouldn't take them after an abortion or that it doesn't make sense
Гость
#36
Дарина
You read them. If I'm asking a question, probably something isn't clear, right?))) The instructions say to start taking from day 1 of your period and you can stop using protection after two weeks, but since I was prescribed it after an abortion, it wasn't the first day of my period🤷🏼♀️ And anyway, my question isn't: 'How soon can I stop using protection?' but 'Can he finish inside?' Have you ever seen an answer to this specific question in any instructions?)))
After an abortion, no sex for 2 weeks, and it's easy to get pregnant, or do you just like having abortions?
Дарина
#37
Гость
After an abortion, no sex for 2 weeks, and it's easy to get pregnant, or do you just like having abortions?
But I already wrote that the doctor prescribed them to me after the abortion, said that I can continue taking them in the future and use them for contraception, that's why I'm asking) I never wrote anywhere that I'm having sex right now))
Алена
#38
Дарина
But I didn't prescribe them to myself, the gynecologist prescribed them
And ALL my acquaintances were prescribed them by gynecologists after an abortion or miscarriage. I read about it online, I didn't see a single article that says you shouldn't take them after an abortion or that it doesn't make sense
BUT I'M AFRAID TO TAKE PILLS I BOUGHT LINDINET 20. MY BOYFRIEND DOESN'T WANT TO USE CONTRACEPTION, AND I DON'T WANT KIDS RIGHT NOW, HE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND, I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO(
Гость
#39
Гость
Author, did you even think logically before asking this question? What do you think is the function of birth control pills?
If you don't ejaculate inside, then why take the pills at all? Have you not thought about that?
Because even if you don't finish inside, there's still a chance of getting pregnant
Гость
#40
Гость
Author, did you even think logically before asking this question? What do you think is the function of birth control pills?
If you don't ejaculate inside, then why take the pills at all? Have you not thought about that?
These pills need to be taken to keep hormones balanced, that's their primary purpose, and contraception is secondary.
Гость
#41
Гость
Hmm... but at least that's honest. Admitting your mistakes is the path to a better future, too bad not all girls get these simple truths.
Hello! I also started taking Janine, and I have doubts about from which day you can stop using protection...
Гость
#42
Гость
You still haven't answered the question. Why take the pills if the man doesn't finish inside?
Even though it's been 2 years, I'll still answer. Birth control pills aren't prescribed just to avoid pregnancy. Moreover, in a huge number of cases they're not prescribed for that purpose. Anemia worsened by heavy periods - here you have oral contraceptives.
To preserve depleting egg cells - take the pills.
Can't get pregnant - you go on contraceptives - get off contraceptives and get pregnant like from the holy spirit - that's also an option.
Using oral contraceptives isn't always for the purpose of pleasant finishing inside.
Гость
#43
Гость
You still haven't answered the question. Why take the pills if the man doesn't finish inside?
If you had studied this topic even a little, you'd know that you can get pregnant without finishing inside, since there are sperm in pre-ejaculate fluid too
Гость
#44
I came looking for an answer, but I couldn't stop laughing while reading.
Гость
#45
Гость
You still haven't answered the question. Why take the pills if the man doesn't finish inside?
Maybe because there's a chance of getting pregnant even if he didn't come inside?)
Гость
#46
Гость
You still haven't answered the question. Why take the pills if the man doesn't finish inside?
Such pills can even treat cysts, and thinking the whole world revolves around men is stupid!
Гость
#47
Гость
You still haven't answered the question. Why take the pills if the man doesn't finish inside?
So you don't have to use condoms.... Because you can get pregnant from pre-ejaculate during sex, not just from sperm. Read about it, you should know this.
Гость
#48
Гость
You still haven't answered the question. Why take the pills if the man doesn't finish inside?
You take birth control so your man can enjoy himself? Not primarily for yourself?)))
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#49
Дарина
I'm asking the question to get an answer. I started taking them for the first time, I'm asking to make absolutely sure... maybe they're for some additional protection just in case... I don't know, that's why I'm asking
I used to take pills before and everything was fine. Then I stopped and didn't take them for several years. And it was actually the condom that failed me. Nothing tore. It's just that they protect against unwanted pregnancy by 85% while pills protect by 95-98%. Pills prevent the release of an egg and ovulation doesn't occur, which is what leads to pregnancy. The best time to have unprotected sex is on the 20th day of your cycle (the first day of your period is the first day of the cycle) and after taking pills for one month. During the first month of taking them, it's better to use condoms or withdrawal method. In the second month, starting from the 20th day of the cycle, you can try that kind of sexual activity too. Provided that you're taking the same COC medication at the same time every day. But the most reliable protection comes from the subcutaneous implant, which lasts for 3 years and then needs to be replaced or removed. It only fails in 1% of cases and is currently considered the most reliable. But in Russia it's not widely available yet and is rarely used here. So here, COC pills provide the best protection against unwanted pregnancy.
Гость
#50
Гость
What a topic.
It's a normal topic, if you don't like it don't read it
Гость
#51
Гость
Author, did you even think logically before asking this question? What do you think is the function of birth control pills?
If you don't ejaculate inside, then why take the pills at all? Have you not thought about that?
For example, to reduce pain during menstruation. Contraceptives aren't only for finishing inside :)
Гость
#52
Гость
You still haven't answered the question. Why take the pills if the man doesn't finish inside?
Probably so your little dicks, which you sometimes can't control, don't go where they shouldn't. Like the classic: 'I'll pull out in time, don't worry'