Didn't finish inside. Could I be pregnant?
Please tell me what to do. Had my first sexual intercourse today without contraception, but he didn't finish inside. The guy says he has good control and nothing got in (I think that's probably true) and won't get in (?) me, but I'm panicking a bit. I did take a hot bath though - they say that might prevent it. I read that even with withdrawal method, sperm can be released with pre-cum... so now I don't know what to do. I've considered options like Postinor (but what if nothing actually got in? Health is precious too) and similar pills, or waiting to check if there's anything and having a medical abortion if needed... one problem: I'm 17, and this abortion is only done in clinics, meaning I can't do it discreetly. Please keep opinions like "you should have thought earlier etc." to yourself. And tell me if you've had similar experiences (unprotected but not finishing inside)? Did you get pregnant or not after that? And what would you advise me to do? Thanks in advance)
Алиса
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And how was it—did you get a thrill from sex like that: three minutes of thrusting followed by a month of panic about getting pregnant or catching gonorrhea? And is it too much trouble to use a condom?
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Tsk tsk, not too weak, it just didn't work out, wasn't planned for today specifically 😉)
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Alice
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Did you at least enjoy how it went yourself?
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It's quite possible ))) no need to finish )) depending on the day of the cycle. If it's a couple of days before your period, then unlikely !!!!
Алиса
Гость
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Daaaaaamn, if you're wondering whether I regret it or not, I don't. I just asked for advice, whoever can help with it, and I don't need just curious people, sorry.
Алиса
Ллл
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10 days after the end of your last period. What's the probability here?
1. Do not agree to have sex without a condom.
2. Lubricant and semen are different substances secreted by different glands.
3. A hot bath can cause a miscarriage (not always) in the early stages (and you had an incomplete conception just half an hour ago).
2. Lubricant and semen are different substances secreted by different glands.
3. A hot bath can cause a miscarriage (not always) in the early stages (and you had an incomplete conception just half an hour ago).
Алиса
Гостья
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Cheers))
Гость
You idiot! Read up on male physiology; during sex, a man releases a small amount of sperm before ejaculation, hence the risk of pregnancy with the withdrawal method!
Гость
Calm down, girl!!! You are not pregnant! There might be women who have gotten pregnant from withdrawal, but they are a tiny minority; do you really think you could fall into that negligible percentage? And don't even think about poisoning your body with all sorts of pills!
Гость
What to do???? Use a condom!!!
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Are you serious? That's how I ended up with my daughter.
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Yes, it was all the same for me—I got pregnant, had to go through with the birth, the guy left us a year later, and now I'm stuck without money, without an education, with a small child to care for!
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So you don't know how to use contraception or bought it in an underpass for 3 roubles.
Алиса
Гость
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And how many times did you use the pull-out method before getting pregnant? Many times? You didn't get pregnant the first time, right?
Алиса
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And how many times before getting pregnant did you use the pull-out method?
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Guest
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You're referring to coitus interruptus. What contraception are you talking about?
Алиса
Гость
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How many times did you have withdrawal sex before pregnancy?
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Alice
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We used this method for 3 years before the birth of our first child. After our son was born, we decided to continue in the same way, and I gave birth to our second child after 1.5 years.
Гость
Take the pill and don't worry.
If you don't want to take hormones - no sex without a condom.
P.S. All these stories about safety or the negligible chance of pregnancy with withdrawal are complete nonsense. But if you want to get pregnant - then by all means, leave everything as it is, just don't come here later creating threads about your hard luck story.
If you don't want to take hormones - no sex without a condom.
P.S. All these stories about safety or the negligible chance of pregnancy with withdrawal are complete nonsense. But if you want to get pregnant - then by all means, leave everything as it is, just don't come here later creating threads about your hard luck story.
Гость
I got pregnant just 3-4 days before my period. But it's fine for me, I'm married. And we've had our second child.
Алиса
Гость
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so how many times did you actually do it, and I'm talking about just once........................................................
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Alice
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Three years. But here's the thing, you understand. Especially since you're 10 days past your period.
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Alice, no one can give you a definite answer to your question; it's like fortune-telling at this point. The withdrawal method is unreliable, especially if the guy ejaculated more than once. However, the chance of getting pregnant from just one instance is quite low. So, it's highly likely that you're not pregnant. For your own peace of mind, make it a rule to always carry a condom in your bag. That way, you won't find yourself in such situations again.
Don't drink all sorts of chemicals; you'll only harm your body.
My husband and I have always used the withdrawal method for contraception, and we've never had an unplanned pregnancy. The chance of getting pregnant is minimal if the guy is in tune with his body.
My husband and I have always used the withdrawal method for contraception, and we've never had an unplanned pregnancy. The chance of getting pregnant is minimal if the guy is in tune with his body.
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Алиса
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What - is one time not enough to get pregnant? Do the sperm accumulate or something?) You're funny, OP. My pull-out game has already gone to school.
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Alice
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Dear woman, be sure to share this heart-wrenching story with your future husband. In a couple of years. Preferably on the eve of your wedding, looking him straight in the eyes. He'll feel sorry for you.
Couldn't you have put a condom on, was it not meant to be?
Couldn't you have put a condom on, was it not meant to be?
Гость
Postinor can backfire. So can a medical abortion. If you go through with it, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. I think you got lucky this first time. If you're too shy to talk about condoms, go to a gynaecologist and let them prescribe you contraceptives.
Гость
If a girl gets pregnant from withdrawal, then it wasn't a proper withdrawal; the man didn't pull out in time, that's all! The chance from pre-ejaculate is very small, practically negligible. Plus, you have to hit ovulation. Both I and my friends have practiced withdrawal for years, and then we got pregnant from the first or second time we stopped this contraception.
Гостья
It's been 7 years since we started dating, with the same guy, who is now my husband. We don't have children and don't plan to for another 5 years or so.
Before our first time, we simply went together and got tested for all STDs. We even saved up for the tests for about three months (such check-ups are expensive, but health is more important).
Before our first time, we simply went together and got tested for all STDs. We even saved up for the tests for about three months (such check-ups are expensive, but health is more important).
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Alice
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And how many times before getting pregnant did you rely on the withdrawal method?
The same number as the original poster, as I said, it was all exactly the same!
The same number as the original poster, as I said, it was all exactly the same!
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Author, the same thing as with you!
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How she came about, no one knows! We weren't there holding a candle!
Гость
Moreover, many men don't even know how to practice withdrawal!!! So what actually happened in specific cases is still a big question.
Инна
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OMG! You saved up for three months for tests. What kind of space-age tests were those? A swab and an HIV blood test. They would have done it all for free at your local medical facilities.
It is entirely possible to get pregnant this way. During interrupted intercourse, a small release of sperm can occur mid-act, which the guy might not even notice and assume everything is fine. And that's it—pregnant.
Гость
And then, if you get pregnant, your boyfriend will say, "It's not my child, I didn't come."
Лиза
My husband and I had a withdrawal method, and now our daughter is 2 years old. We were in shock when we found out I was pregnant. So, if you're not planning for a child, always use a condom! (Though, my husband and I have had instances where the condom broke.)
Гость
10 days after your period is the highest risk of getting pregnant. My withdrawal method went to nursery school this year!) We decided to try withdrawal for the first time and got pregnant straight away. So don't listen to stories about 'pulling out in time', it's better to take care of your health yourself. Withdrawal is not a method of contraception at all. Sperm is released during intercourse. If you're healthy and fertile, you can easily get pregnant even on the first try.
Гость
Five years on the pill, then we tried for a long time and finally got pregnant, so getting pregnant isn't that easy after all! Alice, don't stress yourself out, your period will come, and don't take the pills!
I've taken it twice, but Escapelle, I wouldn't recommend it – it messed everything up, I lost weight, started eating a lot, and my periods came once every three months.
Anyway, if there was no condom, the guy didn't finish right after pulling out and nothing leaked out afterwards – the chance is minimal.
Are there any changes? In preferences? That's also quite important.
Take a test.
Don't fool around without a condom until you're 18 if you don't want to get caught.
Buy a test. Always have one on hand!
The most dangerous days are two weeks before and after your period (ovulation), but the timing varies for everyone.
I don't like condoms, and they don't suit him, never had any scares.
A hot bath helps avoid pregnancy. Also, drink cola with lemon and pee after sex. 100% guarantee.))))
Anyway, if there was no condom, the guy didn't finish right after pulling out and nothing leaked out afterwards – the chance is minimal.
Are there any changes? In preferences? That's also quite important.
Take a test.
Don't fool around without a condom until you're 18 if you don't want to get caught.
Buy a test. Always have one on hand!
The most dangerous days are two weeks before and after your period (ovulation), but the timing varies for everyone.
I don't like condoms, and they don't suit him, never had any scares.
A hot bath helps avoid pregnancy. Also, drink cola with lemon and pee after sex. 100% guarantee.))))
Indeed, my sarcasm was caught)) Don't pour anything in there for yourselves)
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Oh, of course - relatively safe. The dangerous ones are actually the ovulation days.
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Alice
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The most likely probability. Right around ovulation.
Гостья
Inna
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Well, I didn't want to do it at the clinic—they might have informed my parents, so I went to a private one, and besides, we were still underage schoolkids—didn't have much money.
But even back then, I knew that it's not just HIV we should be afraid of; many other diseases transmitted through unprotected sex are very unpleasant, and some are hard to diagnose in the early stages, while treating them later is a real hassle.
So I think we all did the right thing.
But even back then, I knew that it's not just HIV we should be afraid of; many other diseases transmitted through unprotected sex are very unpleasant, and some are hard to diagnose in the early stages, while treating them later is a real hassle.
So I think we all did the right thing.
Гостья
And the nonsense about unexpected pregnancies is written by those whose men can't control themselves, or it's about using protection for the second time, or while not sober (not necessarily being drunk).
Many people in the country drink – that's why they get 'surprised' by pregnancies.
I've always preferred feeling my partner inside me rather than a condom; yes, for me, the difference is noticeable.
As for pills/suppositories/IUDs – they only harm oneself.
Many people in the country drink – that's why they get 'surprised' by pregnancies.
I've always preferred feeling my partner inside me rather than a condom; yes, for me, the difference is noticeable.
As for pills/suppositories/IUDs – they only harm oneself.
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Alice
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It is possible to get pregnant as some spermatozoa are present in the pre-ejaculate, that is, in the clear fluid that is released from the penis during intercourse. (Apologies, I studied abroad and don't know many terms.) So, further it all depends, of course, on ovulation, on the motility of the spermatozoa, and on the pH in the vagina. Oh, and by the way, spermatozoa can live inside for up to 5 days.
Лола
Lola
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And also. There should be emergency contraception pills, which are contraceptives for cases when a condom breaks. However, they must be taken within the first 24 hours; there are also options up to 3 days after intercourse, but those have stronger side effects.
Люся
To wait for your period without worry, I suggest taking a pill. Although it's rare, there are women who get pregnant this way. Your cycle day is actually ideal for conception. There's nothing terrible about the pill if taken just once. It's certainly better than an abortion!
Гость
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It's astonishingly backward ignorance for our times. Have you ever heard of the Pearl Index? It shows the probability of a woman getting pregnant within a year for each contraceptive method. For withdrawal method it's about 25%! That means every fourth woman gets pregnant!
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