Didn't finish inside. Is pregnancy possible?
Please tell me what to do. Had my first sexual intercourse today without contraception, but didn't finish inside. The guy says he has good control and nothing got in (I think that's true) and won't get in (?) me, but I'm panicking a bit. I did take a hot bath though, they say it can prevent it. I read that even with withdrawal method, sperm can be released with pre-cum... so now I don't know what to do. I considered options like Postinor (but what if nothing happened, nothing got in? health is also important) and similar options, or wait, check if there's something or not and if there is, have a medical abortion... one problem: I'm 17, and this abortion is only done in clinics, meaning I can't do it discreetly. Please keep your opinions about "you should have thought earlier, etc." to yourself. And tell me if you've had similar experiences (unprotected but not finishing inside)? And did you get pregnant after that or not. And what would you advise me to do? Thanks in advance)
Алиса
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And how was it—did you get a kick out of that kind of sex: three minutes of thrusting followed by a month of panic about getting pregnant or catching gonorrhea? And is it too much to use a condom?
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Oh please, not too weak, it just didn't work out, it wasn't planned for today specifically)
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Alice
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Did you at least enjoy how it went?
Ллл
It's quite possible ))) you don't necessarily have to finish ))) depending on the day of the cycle. If it's a couple of days before your period, then it's unlikely !!!!
Алиса
Гость
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Daaaaaamn, if you're wondering if I regret it, no. I just asked for advice, whoever can help with that, and I don't need just curious people, sorry.
Алиса
Ллл
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10 days after the end of your last period. What's the probability here?
1. Do not agree to have sex without a condom.
2. Lubricant and semen are different things, secreted by different glands.
3. A hot bath can cause a miscarriage (not always) in the early stages (and you had a conception just half an hour ago).
2. Lubricant and semen are different things, secreted by different glands.
3. A hot bath can cause a miscarriage (not always) in the early stages (and you had a conception just half an hour ago).
Алиса
Гостья
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Thanks))
Гость
Idiot! Read up on male physiology: during sex, a man releases a small amount of sperm before ejaculation, hence the risk of pregnancy with withdrawal method!
Гость
Calm down, girl!!! You are not pregnant! There might be women who got pregnant from withdrawal, but they are a tiny minority—do you really think you could fall into that negligible percentage? And don't you dare poison your body with all sorts of pills!
Гость
What to do???? Use a condom!!!
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Are you serious? That's how I ended up with my daughter.
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Yes, it was all the same for me—I got pregnant, had to give birth, the guy left us a year later, and now I'm stuck without money, without an education, with a small child to care for!
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So you don't know how to use contraception or bought it in a subway passage for 3 rubles.
Алиса
Гость
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And how many times did you have withdrawal method before pregnancy? Many times? You didn't get pregnant the first time, right?
Алиса
Аллочка
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And how many times before you got pregnant did you use the pull-out method?
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Guest
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You're talking about the pull-out method. What contraception?
Алиса
Гость
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How many times did you use withdrawal method before getting pregnant?
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Alice
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We used this method for 3 years before the birth of our first child. After our son was born, we decided to continue the same way, and I gave birth to our second child 1.5 years later.
Гость
Take the pill and don't worry.
If you don't want to take hormones - no sex without a condom.
P.S. All these stories about safety or the negligible chance of pregnancy with withdrawal are complete nonsense. But if you want to get pregnant - then by all means, leave everything as it is, just don't come here later creating threads about your hard luck story.
If you don't want to take hormones - no sex without a condom.
P.S. All these stories about safety or the negligible chance of pregnancy with withdrawal are complete nonsense. But if you want to get pregnant - then by all means, leave everything as it is, just don't come here later creating threads about your hard luck story.
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I got pregnant just 3-4 days before my period. But it's fine for me—I'm married. And we had our second child.
Алиса
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So how many times did you do it, and I'm talking about just once........................................................
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Alice
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Three years. But here's the thing, you understand. Especially since you're 10 days after your period.
Гость
Alice, no one can give you a clear answer to your question; it's like fortune-telling at this point. The withdrawal method is unreliable, especially if the guy ejaculated more than once. But the chance of getting pregnant from just one time is small. So, most likely, you are not pregnant. For your own peace of mind, make it a rule to always carry a condom in your bag. That way, you won't find yourself in such situations again.
Don't drink all sorts of chemicals, you'll only ruin your body.
My husband and I have always used the withdrawal method for contraception, and we've never had an unplanned pregnancy. The chance of getting pregnant is minimal if the guy is in tune with his body.
My husband and I have always used the withdrawal method for contraception, and we've never had an unplanned pregnancy. The chance of getting pregnant is minimal if the guy is in tune with his body.
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Алиса
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What, is one time not enough to get pregnant? Do sperm accumulate or something? You're funny, OP. My pull-out game has already gone to school.
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Alice
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Dear woman, be sure to share this heart-wrenching story with your future husband. In a couple of years. Preferably right before the wedding, looking him straight in the eyes. He'll feel sorry for you.
Couldn't you have put on a condom, huh?
Couldn't you have put on a condom, huh?
Гость
Postinor can backfire. So can a medical abortion. If you go through with it, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. I think you dodged a bullet this time. If you're too shy to talk about condoms, go to a gynecologist and have them prescribe you contraceptives.
Гость
If a girl gets pregnant from withdrawal, then it wasn't a proper withdrawal; the man pulled out too late, that's all! The chance from pre-ejaculate is very small, practically negligible. Plus, you have to hit ovulation. Both I and my friends have practiced withdrawal for years, and then we got pregnant within the first or second time of stopping this contraception.
Гостья
It's been 7 years since we started dating, with the same guy, now my husband, no kids and we don't want any for at least another 5 years.
Before our first time, we simply went together and got tested for all STDs, we even saved up for the tests for about three months (such check-ups are expensive, but health is more important).
Before our first time, we simply went together and got tested for all STDs, we even saved up for the tests for about three months (such check-ups are expensive, but health is more important).
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Alice
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And how many times before getting pregnant did you rely on the withdrawal method?
The same number as the original poster, I'm telling you, everything was exactly the same!
The same number as the original poster, I'm telling you, everything was exactly the same!
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Author, it's exactly the same as yours!
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How she came to be is nobody's business! We weren't there holding a candle!
Гость
Moreover, many men don't even know how to use the withdrawal method properly!!! So what actually happened in specific cases is still a big question.
Инна
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OMG! Three months of saving for tests. What kind of cosmic tests are those? A swab and an HIV blood test. At local healthcare facilities, they would have done everything for you for free.
It is quite possible to get pregnant this way. During interrupted intercourse, a small release of sperm can occur in the middle of the act, which the guy might not even notice and think everything is fine. And that's it—pregnancy happens.
Гость
And then, if you get pregnant, your boyfriend will say, "It's not my child, I didn't come."
Лиза
My husband and I had a withdrawal method, and now our daughter is 2 years old. We were in shock when we found out I was pregnant. So, if you're not planning to have a child, always use a condom! (Though, my husband and I have had instances where the condom broke.)
Гость
Ten days after your period is the highest risk of getting pregnant. My pull-out method went to kindergarten this year) We decided to try the pull-out method for the first time and got pregnant on the very first try. So don't listen to stories about "pulling out in time," it's better to take care of your health yourself. The pull-out method is not a form of contraception at all. Sperm is released during intercourse. If you're healthy and fertile, you can easily get pregnant even on the first try.
Гость
After 5 years on the pill, we tried for a long time and finally got pregnant, so getting pregnant isn't that easy! Alice, don't stress yourself out, your period will come, and don't take the pills!
I've taken it twice, but I don't recommend Escapelle - it messed everything up, I lost weight, started eating a lot, and my periods came only once every three months.
Anyway, if there was no condom, the guy didn't finish right after pulling out and nothing leaked out afterward - the chance is minimal.
Are there any changes? In preferences? That's also quite important.
Take a test.
Don't have sex without a condom until you're 18 if you don't want to get caught.
Buy a test. Always have one on hand!
The most dangerous days are two weeks before and after your period (ovulation), but the timing varies for everyone.
I don't like condoms, and they don't fit him, but I've never had any accidents.
A hot bath helps prevent pregnancy. Also, drink Coke with lemon and pee after sex. 100% guarantee.))))
Anyway, if there was no condom, the guy didn't finish right after pulling out and nothing leaked out afterward - the chance is minimal.
Are there any changes? In preferences? That's also quite important.
Take a test.
Don't have sex without a condom until you're 18 if you don't want to get caught.
Buy a test. Always have one on hand!
The most dangerous days are two weeks before and after your period (ovulation), but the timing varies for everyone.
I don't like condoms, and they don't fit him, but I've never had any accidents.
A hot bath helps prevent pregnancy. Also, drink Coke with lemon and pee after sex. 100% guarantee.))))
Got it, you caught my sarcasm)) Don't pour anything in there)
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Oh, of course - relatively safe. The dangerous ones are actually the ovulation days.
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Alice
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The most likely probability. Right around ovulation.
Гостья
Inna
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Well, I didn't want to do it at the clinic—they might have informed my parents, so I went to a private one, and besides, we were still underage students—didn't have much money.
But even back then, I knew that we should be afraid not only of HIV; many other diseases transmitted through unprotected sex are very unpleasant, and some are hard to diagnose in the early stages, while treating them later is a real hassle.
So I think we all did the right thing.
But even back then, I knew that we should be afraid not only of HIV; many other diseases transmitted through unprotected sex are very unpleasant, and some are hard to diagnose in the early stages, while treating them later is a real hassle.
So I think we all did the right thing.
Гостья
And the nonsense about unexpected pregnancies is written by those whose men can't control themselves, or it's the second time using withdrawal, or while not sober (not necessarily drunk).
Many people in the country drink - that's why they get 'surprised' by pregnancies.
I've always preferred feeling my partner inside me rather than a condom; yes, for me, the difference is noticeable.
As for pills/suppositories/IUDs - it's only harming oneself.
Many people in the country drink - that's why they get 'surprised' by pregnancies.
I've always preferred feeling my partner inside me rather than a condom; yes, for me, the difference is noticeable.
As for pills/suppositories/IUDs - it's only harming oneself.
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Alice
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You can get pregnant because a certain amount of sperm is present in pre-ejaculate, that is, in the clear fluid that is released from the penis during intercourse. (Sorry, I studied abroad and don't know many terms) So. Then it all depends, of course, on ovulation, on sperm motility, and on the pH in the vagina. Oh, and by the way, sperm can live inside for up to 5 days.
Лола
Lola
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And also. There should be emergency contraception pills, which are contraceptives in case a condom breaks. You only need to take them within the first 24 hours; there are also options up to 3 days after intercourse, but they have strong side effects.
Люся
To wait for your period calmly, I suggest taking a pill. Few, but still, there are women who get pregnant this way. Your cycle day is just right for conception. There's nothing scary about the pill if you take it once. It's definitely better than an abortion!
Гость
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It's astonishingly primitive ignorance for our times. Have you ever heard of the Pearl Index? It shows the probability of a woman getting pregnant within a year for each contraceptive method. For withdrawal, it's about 25%! That means every fourth woman gets pregnant!
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